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What is domestic violence?

Domestic violence is a pattern of assaultive behavior that includes:

  • Physical attacks (slapping, hitting, burning, etc.)
  • Sexual attacks (rape, incest etc.)
  • Emotional attacks (threats, insults, harassment, etc.

Domestic violence is also an economic coercion that adults or adolescents use against their intimate partners. It is observed that people who are violent often: have witnessed or suffered abuse as children; have low self-esteem (using violence makes them feel important); abuse alcohol or other drugs (a very common factor of domestic violence); have mental or emotional problems.
Violence in the family affects people from every income level, race and religion. It is a crime in our society, but it can be prevented.

The relationship between domestic violence and child abuse

Domestic violence is a widespread problem, with long-term consequences to the family members. Each year millions of children are affected by being direct targets of violence or witnessing violence in their homes. There are strong connections between domestic violence and child abuse. Conducted studies of children at battered women's shelters found that almost 70% of the children were victims of abuse themselves.

There are a lot of aspects in a child's personality that are affected by domestic violence. Many develop serious physical and mental health problems that can last lifetime.

Indicators that show that your child lives in a violent home

There are some warning signs that should not be ignored. These signs may differ for males and females, for preschool children and teenagers. Some children may show withdrawals from the others and passiveness, while others may act aggressively.

What you can do to prevent or cure

Any type of prevention effort that reaches families can greatly reduce the problem of domestic violence. Some of those prevention ways include:

  • Educating the public and the extent of the problem.
  • Encouraging attempts for reducing violence in media.
  • Reporting cases of abuse and family violence to the proper authorities or the police.

Positive influence can help a child overcome some negative consequences of being a victim of domestic violence. Certain approaches have shown a great effect on the problem:

  • Family support - Being close to siblings or other relatives helps children feel loved.
  • Community support - Organizing programs that involve youth activities gives children a chance to learn new skills.
  • Group therapy - can provide great support for people that share similar experiences.
  • Individual therapy - can help victims to rebuild their self-esteem, learn to trust again.